AUBURN – GARY F. WOLCOTT, 72, passed away peacefully of natural causes on Sunday morning,
July 16, 2023. His passing marked the end of a long struggle with diabetes and multiple
myeloma. Gary fought valiantly to keep going for the love of his family and the commitment to
his brain injury work. He had been moved to Hospice House 24 hours before his passing, after
being cared for by his family at home for ten days.
Born August 17, 1950, in Adrian, Michigan, Gary was the first child of Bernard F. and Kathryn J.
(Mumaw) Wolcott. Raised in Adrian, Gary attained the rank of Eagle Scout; he graduated from
Adrian High School in 1968. He went to Albion College in Michigan, graduating in 1972 with a
degree in Studio Arts. Gary met his wife Susan Crane at Albion; they were married there in
1971. Susan's calling to serve in pastoral ministry led them next to Boston, where Gary worked
for Kennedy Studios and later the Chelmsford Youth Program, while Susan pursued her studies.
From 1975–1977, Gary pursued and was awarded a Masters of Education in Community Mental
Health Counseling from Northeastern University.
During Susan's first pastorate in Lowville, NY, Gary worked as the Associate Director of the Lewis
County Opportunities CAP Agency, and then the Executive Director for Lewis County ARC, before
the couple moved back to the Boston area for Gary to pursue post graduate studies. When the
program was phased out, Gary began to volunteer at the National Head Injury Foundation in
Framingham, MA, while Susan served a church in Weston, MA. During this time, Gary's father
suffered a brain injury as a result of early brain surgery to remove a tumor. In response to this
family crisis, the trajectory of Gary's life shifted to helping develop more effective ways to help
people with disabilities due to brain injury. He became the Director of Education & Professional
Development for the National Head Injury Foundation in 1986. While living in Weston, MA, he
also served as a Scout Master, organizing trips to two National Jamborees, as well as two
expeditions to Philmont Scout Reserve in Cimarron, NM. At the time his work with NHIF
required a great deal of travel for national speaking events; it was Scouting that grounded his
relationship with his two sons.
In 1990 NHIF moved to Washington, DC, and Gary decided to set up a small consulting business.
One of his early contracts was to work with the former Brain Injury Association of Maine,
implementing teacher training throughout the state. He co-edited with Ronald Savage a book
to help parents and teachers write and implement I.E.P.s for students with brain injuries. Gary
helped to establish River Ridge brain injury Rehab Center in Kennebunk. His pride and joy was
the work he did to envision and build the Spiller Park Assisted Living Apartments in Gorham; the
first residents to live there had been institutionalized for years in facilities out of state, because
of behavior problems resulting from their brain injuries. Gary believed these brain injury
survivors could live successfully in the community, live independently in their own apartments,
and pursue their own interests with help from staff. In 2000 the rest of Gary's family joined him
in Maine. Gary was employed by Goodwill Industries of NNE, first as Director of Residential
Brain Injury Services, and later as Director of Education, Training & Staff Development.
In 2007, Gary became the Program Manager for Maine DHHS Brain Injury Services; at that point
brain injury was not considered a disability category to be funded by state or federal resources.
Gary developed the waiver making it possible for brain injury survivors to receive the ongoing
support they needed to live successfully in the community. In 2012, Gary was promoted to
Associate Director of OADS within DHHS; and in 2014, he became the Director. The Office of
Aging and Disability Services (OADS) provides direct service to over 30,000 Maine citizens and
provides program management of Maine's six Home and Community Medicaid Waivers,
including the Brain Injury Waiver. Gary was deeply committed to bringing brain injury survivors
home from out-of-state placements to receive their rehabilitation and support close to home
and family.
Gary retired from state government in April, 2017. He kept busy renovating his old farmhouse
in Chesterville and enjoyed tending to his woodlot, now a Tree Farm. He continued until very
recently to participate in the Acquired Brain Injury Advisory Council (ABIAC) for the State of
Maine, and served on the Advisory Board of the Brain Injury Association of America/Maine
chapter. His work on behalf of brain injury survivors and their families continues to be a
blessing. He was a member of the Henderson Memorial Baptist Church in Farmington until
Susan's retirement in 2020, and became a member at Penney Memorial United Baptist Church
in Augusta in 2021.
Gary was predeceased by his parents, grandparents, and their siblings. Gary is survived by his
wife of 52 years, the Rev. Susan Crane; his son Joshua and wife Lila and two grandchildren,
Archie and Vivian of La Crescent, MN; his son Benjamin and wife Nayika of Chesterville; and an
"adopted" daughter, Kelly Nelson (Toone, TN) and her sons Justin and Eric Foppiano. Also
surviving Gary are his brothers, Roy and Lynn Wolcott and their families in Michigan; his
mother-in-law, Betty Crane of Florida, as well as brothers- and sisters-in-law, nieces and
nephews and their children.
A Celebration of Life will be held at Penney Memorial United Baptist Church, 393 Water St.,
Augusta, ME 04330 on Wednesday, August 9, at 1:00 pm., the Rev. Justin Frank presiding. Burial
will be private. In lieu of flowers, please send donations in memory of Gary Wolcott to either
Androscoggin Home Health and Hospice, 15 Strawberry Ave., Lewiston, ME 04240; or to BIAAME at 126 Western Ave. #261, Augusta, ME 04330